¿Cómo fue atendido cuando era niño? ¿Qué tan bien se cumplieron sus necesidades? ¿Cuáles fueron sus primeras experiencias en sus relaciones con sus padres y familia? Y ¿cómo afectó esto a su personalidad, identidad y vida de ahí en adelante? Heridas relacionales son más perjudiciales cuando somos más jóvenes. Éstas pueden provenir de un padre…
We developed this simply Family Map Survey in the year 2000 for our work with parents of young families. The questions in this Family Map Survey can help you to assess the quality of relational connecting and structure (boundaries) in your family of origin. If you have children you can also use the Family Map Survey…
“Love your neighbor as yourself” is the “Royal Law” of Scripture (James 2:8-17). Learn by relying upon Christ to keep this law from your heart and everything else in life falls into place. Love God and love your neighbor as yourself — the two sides of Jesus’ Greatest Commandment go together so that you can’t…
This Sacred Pathways Survey will help you to understand the ways you best connect with God and how you can grow spiritually. Nine paths are explained.
We offer a free Internet Addiction Test to help you see if you (or a loved one) might have an Internet addiction and need help breaking free. I developed the acronym “A-N A-D-D-I-C-T” as a simple screening tool to identify compulsive behavior problems. Here it’s applied to Internet use, which refers to whatever you do online including…
We find the Myers’ Briggs Type Indicator to be the most helpful personality test. There are many versions of the test to get your profile. We found one online that’s free! The Myers Briggs is a powerful tool for understanding your God-given personality and that of your loved ones or co-workers. It’s simple and yet very…
This Love Languages Test is a free, simple tool we designed based on the concepts in Gary Chapman’s best-selling book, Love Languages. It’s meant to be completed by you and your spouse, family member, or friend and then discussed in order to help you better understand one another’s preferred styles for giving and receiving care. The…
Pastors and other leaders are especially vulnerable to stress overload, as well as to burnout, because it’s difficult to set boundaries when leading a ministry or caring for people in need pastors. Research on pastors and pastor’s wives have shown that they suffer from extreme stress, painful struggles, and often burnout. Stress Overload is from being chronically overstressed or going…
How is your stress level? What changes have you gone through in the last year that may be affecting your health and well-being? The Life Events Stress Test can help you understand. At Soul Shepherding we care for pastors and other ministry leaders and find that they are especially vulnerable to stress overload and burnout. Parents and…
Many people carry father wounds. We all have a deep longing for a father’s love. These reflection questions will help you on the path to healing. What your relationship with your father was like when you were younger and how you’ve dealt with that has a lot to do with who you are today and…